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How Is Alimony Determined in New Jersey?


Going through a divorce brings up a lot of questions, and money is usually at the top of the list. If you might pay alimony or receive it, you probably want to know how the number gets picked. New Jersey does not use a strict formula for alimony. Instead, judges look at a list of factors and weigh them based on your situation. This guide walks through how alimony gets calculated, what factors matter most, the different types of alimony in New Jersey, and answers to common questions.

How New Jersey Calculates Alimony Payments

New Jersey does not have an official alimony formula written into law. There is no calculator a judge plugs numbers into. Instead, state law lists a set of factors that judges have to think about before setting an amount.

That said, many family law attorneys use an unofficial guideline when they talk with clients about what to expect. One common approach is to take the difference between both spouses’ gross incomes and use about one quarter of that gap as a starting point for the yearly alimony amount. For example, if one spouse earns $100,000 a year and the other earns $25,000 a year, the gap is $75,000. One quarter of that is $18,750 a year, or a little over $360 a week.

Other attorneys look at net income instead of gross income and land on a range closer to 20 to 25 percent of the difference between what each spouse takes home after taxes. Either way, these numbers are rough estimates, not rules. A judge can land above or below them depending on the facts of the case.

It also helps to know that alimony used to work differently before 2017. Before that year, the spouse paying alimony could deduct those payments on their federal taxes. Tax law changed in 2017, and alimony is no longer tax deductible for the paying spouse on new agreements. Because of that change, some attorneys adjusted their unofficial percentage down a bit from what used to be a common one third guideline.

If a spouse is not working, or is working far below what they are capable of earning, a judge can assign them an income based on their skills and job history. This is called imputed income, and it gets used in the calculation even if that spouse is not currently bringing home that amount.

Standard of Living and Why It Matters

One of the biggest ideas behind New Jersey alimony law is keeping both spouses close to the standard of living they had during the marriage. The goal is not to punish one spouse or hand the other a windfall. It is to try to keep both people from facing a huge drop in their day to day life right after the divorce.

Judges look at things like:

  • The type of home the couple lived in and where it was located
  • How often the family traveled or took vacations
  • Whether kids went to private school
  • How the couple spent money on everyday things like dining out or entertainment

This does not mean alimony will let someone live exactly the same way they did during the marriage. Divorce usually means both people need to adjust their spending in some way. But the court tries to keep the gap between the two households from becoming too wide, as long as the paying spouse can actually afford it.

Factors That Affect Alimony in New Jersey

New Jersey law spells out a long list of factors that judges must consider when they decide alimony. Here is what typically gets weighed:

  1. How much one spouse needs support, and how much the other spouse can actually afford to pay
  2. How long the marriage or civil partnership lasted
  3. The age and health of each spouse, both physical and emotional
  4. The standard of living during the marriage and whether each spouse can keep up something similar
  5. Each spouse’s earning capacity, including their education, job training, and skills
  6. How long the spouse asking for alimony has been out of the workforce
  7. Parenting duties and how they affect a spouse’s ability to work
  8. How long it would take, and how much it would cost, for a spouse to get training or education to become employable
  9. What each spouse contributed to the marriage, including non-financial contributions like raising kids or running the household
  10. How the couple’s property gets divided in the divorce
  11. Whether either spouse can earn investment income from the assets they receive
  12. The tax effects of any alimony award
  13. Whether one spouse already received temporary support during the divorce case
  14. Any other factor a judge thinks is fair to consider

Below is a closer look at a few of these factors that tend to carry the most weight.

Marriage Length

Generally speaking, longer marriages lead to bigger and longer alimony awards. A marriage that lasted 20 or more years often means the spouses built their finances and daily lives around each other for a long time. One spouse may have put their career on hold, or turned down opportunities, to support the family or the other spouse’s job. Shorter marriages usually lead to smaller or shorter-term support, since there was less time for that kind of financial dependence to build up.

Earning Capacity

Earning capacity looks at what each spouse could reasonably earn, not just what they currently earn. A judge looks at education, job history, and current skills for both spouses. If one spouse has an advanced degree or a high paying career and the other spouse gave up work to raise kids or support the household, that gap plays a big role in the alimony decision.

Health of Each Spouse

Physical and mental health matter too. A spouse dealing with a health condition that limits their ability to work, or one that comes with ongoing medical costs, may need more financial support. Health problems can also affect how long alimony lasts, since a spouse with health limitations may need more time, or permanent help, to stay financially stable.

Parental Responsibilities

If one spouse stayed home to raise the kids or cut back on work to handle school pickups, appointments, and everyday parenting, that sacrifice gets weighed by the court. Judges recognize that staying home with kids has real financial value, even though it does not show up on a pay stub.

Property Division

How the couple splits their assets also affects alimony. If one spouse walks away with the house, retirement accounts, or other big assets, they may need less alimony because they already have resources to fall back on. Property division and alimony often get looked at together, not as two separate, unrelated pieces of the divorce.

Tax Effects

Since alimony is no longer tax-deductible for the paying spouse, judges factor that in when they set an amount. The person paying alimony does not get the tax break that used to soften the cost, so courts try to land on a number that is still fair to both sides after taxes.

Alternatives to Traditional Alimony

Alimony is not the only way to handle spousal support after a divorce. In some cases, spouses agree to other options instead, such as:

  • A one time lump sum payment instead of ongoing monthly checks, as long as the paying spouse can afford it
  • Giving the spouse who would normally get alimony a bigger share of other marital assets, so they get value up front instead of over time

These alternatives are not right for every case, but they can work well for couples who want a clean break instead of an ongoing financial connection.

Types of Alimony in New Jersey

New Jersey courts can award a few different kinds of alimony, depending on the length of the marriage and the needs of each spouse.

Pendente Lite Alimony

This is temporary support paid while the divorce case is still going on, before a final judgment. It helps cover expenses during the litigation itself.

Open Durational Alimony

This type usually applies to long marriages, often 20 years or longer, where the spouse receiving support is unlikely to fully return to the workforce. It does not have a set end date, but it can stop or change if something big happens, like the paying spouse retiring or the receiving spouse remarrying.

Limited Duration Alimony

This is support for a set period of time, whether that is measured in months or years. It is common in shorter or medium-length marriages where the receiving spouse needs some help getting back on their feet, but not indefinitely.

Rehabilitative Alimony

This type helps a spouse pay for school, training, or other costs so they can get back into the workforce. It usually lasts only as long as it takes to finish that training and find a job.

Reimbursement Alimony

This applies when one spouse worked to put the other through school, like medical school or law school, with the understanding that both would benefit later. If the marriage ends before that payoff happens, reimbursement alimony pays the supporting spouse back for what they put in.

How an Alimony Lawyer Can Help

Alimony cases involve a lot of moving parts, and having someone in your corner who understands New Jersey family law can make a real difference. A lawyer can help by:

  • Reviewing your income, expenses, and assets to figure out a fair number
  • Explaining which type of alimony fits your situation
  • Negotiating with the other side to avoid a drawn out court fight
  • Presenting your case clearly if the matter does go to court
  • Helping with modifications down the road if your circumstances change

Frequently Asked Questions About New Jersey Alimony

Can alimony be changed after the divorce is final?

Yes. Alimony can be modified in New Jersey, but only if there has been a real, lasting change in circumstances. Small or short-term changes usually will not count. Common reasons courts approve a modification include a big change in income, job loss, or a health problem that affects someone’s ability to work. The spouse asking for the change has to bring evidence to court showing why the current amount is no longer fair.

How long do I have to pay alimony in New Jersey?

It depends on the type of alimony and the length of the marriage. Open durational alimony, often used after long marriages, does not have a set end date, though it can be modified or stopped later. Limited duration alimony ends after a set period, usually tied to how long the marriage lasted. Rehabilitative alimony lasts only as long as it takes the receiving spouse to complete training and find work. A family law attorney can look at your specific case and give you a better idea of what to expect.

What can stop alimony payments in New Jersey?

A few things can end or reduce alimony. If the spouse receiving support gets remarried, alimony usually ends. If that spouse moves in with a new partner and shares expenses with them, the court can reduce or stop payments too, since their financial need may have gone down. A big change in either spouse’s income, whether it goes up or down, can also lead to a change in alimony. Any of these situations usually require going back to court to make the change official.

Talk to a New Jersey Alimony Attorney

Figuring out alimony on your own can feel overwhelming, especially while you are dealing with everything else that comes with a divorce. Every case is different, and the number you end up with depends on your income, your marriage, and your specific circumstances. Putterman Legal can look at your situation, explain your options, and help you work toward a fair outcome. Call (609) 625-8383 today for a free consultation to talk with a family law attorney about your alimony case.

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